Having a baby is a remarkable experience in itself, but when parents decide they’ll try breastfeeding, it can be both rewarding and challenging. We’ll outline some of the questions and answers that many parents have when starting this journey, and share tips, helpful products, and advice for new moms navigating breastfeeding their little one.

Parenting Journey: Erica and Ben’s Story

At a routine Gyno appointment, Erica wasn’t expecting anything out of the ordinary. But that day changed everything, she was told she was pregnant! Shocked and overjoyed, she couldn’t wait to share the news with Ben.

From that moment, life took on a whole new meaning. Erica and Ben began preparing for their little one, reading everything they could about pregnancy, making a birth plan, and turning their home into a calm, welcoming space for the baby. Family and friends surrounded them with love, gifts, and support, eager to celebrate this new chapter.

This was the start of an incredible nine-month journey. Along the way, they navigated the joys and challenges of pregnancy, learned about breastfeeding, and found strength in one another as parents-to-be. Now, let's follow their journey to see how they navigated the first months of parenting and breastfeeding.

How do I prepare for breastfeeding?

Carrying a baby can be exhausting for a mother as she tries to keep up with her regular schedule before the little one is born. Many moms work outside the home or remotely, so planning ahead becomes essential, setting up the nursery, stocking up on diapers, and wondering, “Am I really ready to care for this tiny human?”

Once the initial excitement of learning you’re pregnant settles in, planning moves into full force during your pregnancy! Let’s talk about a few of the products that can help make your breastfeeding journey with your baby go a little more smoothly.

Breastfeeding Essentials

Erica found her Calm & Co. Nursing Bra to be a true game changer. Comfortable, supportive, and designed for both nursing and pumping. She loved how it gave her the freedom to accomplish more during the day, especially during those quiet moments when her baby was asleep.

Nursing & Pumping Bra

Every mom deserves a bra that makes breastfeeding easier while also supporting her body. The Calm & Co. Nursing Bra is crafted to give you all day comfort, seamless stretch, and the functionality you need, whether you’re nursing, pumping, or simply resting. Unlike standard bras, ours is thoughtfully designed for new mothers, so you can focus on what matters most: caring for your baby.

Breastfeeding: Advice and Practical Tips

We all know that breast milk is the best milk, right? No one can deny that babies who drink breast milk have greater immunity, because it comes straight from the mother. Even breast milk fed from the breast or by pumping during the first stage of a baby’s life gives them vital nutrients that are hard to find in formula.

The choice to breastfeed is just one of many important decisions new parents face. While it can be challenging and time consuming at first, it is also one of the most rewarding experiences for both mom and baby. With patience and persistence, breastfeeding becomes easier, and the incredible benefits of breast milk make the effort worthwhile.

The early weeks can be tough, but even a small amount of breast milk provides tremendous benefits as your baby grows stronger and healthier.

Breastfeeding is:

  • A great way to soothe your little one

  • An excellent way to bond with your baby

  • One way your baby get valuable nutrients

Other tips:

  • Your energy levels may be low, and you might even feel like you made the wrong choice to start nursing, but you didn’t. Keep this in mind.
  • Try to sleep when you can, even if it’s when your baby sleeps. Breastfeeding burns a lot of calories, and your body needs rest and nourishment to keep up.
  • Take care of yourself. Go to your doctor for follow-ups as ordered, and let your physician know if you feel unwell in any way after pregnancy and delivery. Early intervention is always best for both you and your baby.
  • Make yourself comfortable when breastfeeding. Keep a bottle of water nearby and sip while you feed. Find a cozy spot, relax, and make the experience as easy on your body as possible.
  • Don’t be afraid to accept help. Take advantage of grocery delivery services, or ask a trusted friend or family member to help with shopping or meals. Household chores can always be delegated, your main job is to care for yourself and your little one.

Sample Pumping and Nursing Schedule For Baby

A schedule or plan can make breastfeeding smoother, especially in the first months. You’ll want to balance feeding your baby on demand with maintaining a strong milk supply.

Feeding on Demand

  • Newborns usually feed every 2–3 hours, or about 8–12 times in 24 hours.
  • Watch for hunger cues (rooting, sucking on hands, fussiness) and feed promptly rather than waiting for crying.

Pumping for Milk Supply

  • If exclusively breastfeeding: You may not need to pump right away unless you’re building a freezer stash or planning to return to work.
  • If nursing + pumping: Try pumping for 10–15 minutes after 1–2 nursing sessions per day to increase supply or store extra milk.
  • If exclusively pumping: Pump every 3 hours (7–8 times in 24 hours) for about 15–20 minutes each session to keep supply strong.

Example Daily Flow (0–3 months)

  • Night feeds: Expect at least 1–2 feedings between midnight and 6 a.m.
  • Morning: Nurse baby around wake-up, then pump if you want extra supply.
  • Daytime: Alternate nursing sessions every 2–3 hours. Add pumping after a couple sessions if desired.
  • Evening: Cluster feeding is common (baby nurses more often in the late afternoon/evening).

Special Considerations

  • Premature or sleepy babies may need to be woken for feeds until weight gain is steady. Pumping can help maintain supply during this stage.
  • Growth spurts (around 2 weeks, 6 weeks, 3 months): Baby may want to nurse more often, this helps boost your supply naturally.

Here is a sample schedule:

7:00 AM – Nurse your baby (or give a bottle if using expressed milk). Pump for 10–15 minutes afterwards if you’re building supply or storing milk.

9:00 AM – Nurse or pump. Baby may want a nap afterwards. This is also a good tummy time session about 30 minutes after feeding.

11:00 AM – Nurse, then pump for 10–15 minutes if desired.

1:00 PM – Nurse or pump. After feeding, try gentle playtime or reading to your baby.

3:00 PM – Nurse, then pump afterwards if you want to maintain or boost supply. Baby may nap.

5:00 PM – Nurse or pump. Evening can be a good time for play, a walk, or bathtime.

7:00 PM – Nurse and begin the nighttime routine. Pump for 10–15 minutes once baby is down.

10:00 PM – Nurse or pump if your baby is still asleep and you want to maintain supply.

1:00 AM – Night feed (common at this age). Pump for 10–15 minutes if needed.

4:00 AM – Another night feed or pump if baby is sleeping longer stretches.

Keep these tips in mind:

  • This is only a sample schedule. Adapt it to your baby’s hunger cues and adjust it as they grow older, begin to want more milk, or their needs change.
  • Wake your baby to eat if needed to help keep a routine and ensure they are getting plenty of nutrients.
  • Breastfeeding, pumping, or a mix of both can all work, choose what keeps you and your baby thriving.
  • Be flexible. Timing will shift many times as your baby grows.
  • Get your rest whenever you can, whether during naps or when you have support.
  • Every mom and baby are different. Don’t try to meet the expectations other moms set for themselves or compare yourself to them.

FAQs About Breastfeeding

A: Focus on nutritious choices that fuel your body and support milk production. Stock up on fruits, vegetables, lean protein, low-fat dairy, soy milk, and whole grain foods you can grab quickly if you’re busy. A balanced diet helps you stay energized while caring for your baby. Don’t forget to drink plenty of water to stay hydrated.

A: Breastfeeding one baby typically burns about 500 extra calories per day. This is why it’s important to eat well-balanced meals and snacks that keep both you and your baby healthy.

A: Don’t be afraid to ask for help. While you focus on nursing, let others handle diaper changes, soothing, or household tasks so you can rest. Use nursing pillows, comfortable seating, and support from lactation consultants or breastfeeding groups when needed.

Conclusion

Breastfeeding can be a deeply rewarding experience for both mother and baby. While it takes patience and flexibility, planning ahead can make the journey smoother. Hopefully, you’ve gathered some helpful tips and encouragement to support you along the way. Explore Calm & Co.'s complete line of breastfeeding essentials to make your breastfeeding journey more comfortable and supported.

The information provided in this article is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider regarding any medical condition. Calm & Co. is not responsible for any consequences arising from the use of this content.